It is not uncommon for men to be challenged by society with becoming a better man. No matter how polished a man can become, society will threaten him with insecurities of not being polished enough. Stereotypes and classifications have taunted men for centuries. This taunting has fostered bad behaviors and patterns in men whose focus has become social economic. Becoming a better man is not structured by external accomplishments; moreover a better man can be classified by his inner self.
Women all over the world look for good men. Many have coined finding a good man is as hard as finding a contact lens in a patch of grass. These accusations may bear some truth but it does not carry all truth. There are good men everywhere; however many men are misguided by what makes them good men. A nice car, stable living, work ethics are a few things that society deem equitable in finding a good man. Many women are susceptible to these kinds of men; only to find out that many of these men are conceited and self-centered. Without a doubt, every man has room for growth and should possess the need to want to become a better man. Listed are tips to help any man in any classification to become a better man.
- Create a Vision plan for your life.
v A man with a vision can create a wholesome life for himself and his family.
- Work on listening skills.
v A man that can listen will always be heard.
- Love God
v Loving God requires more than one being dedicated to a church.
- Be Responsible
v Responsibility includes being involved and interested in the welfare of your child(ren).
- Love your partner or wife for who she is.
v Do not try to create and change a person who you love or marry. Learn the person for who they are and try to glean from their strengths.